Wednesday, March 28, 2012
Brides have been finding more and more ways to save money while still having the wedding of their dreams. One way that many brides are choosing to cut costs is to buy their wedding dress at a sample sale. You can find a designer dress at a much lower price tag, as long as you are comfortable with the dress possibly being less-than-perfect.
To help you learn what you need to know before considering a pre-owned gown or sample sale, read today's advice from Rhonda Wernick, owner of Nashville's Oakwood Cleaners. Oakwood is the go-to gown care specialist for many of Nashville’s best bridal boutiques.
ABG: Have you seen an increase in brides bringing sample gowns in?
Oakwood Cleaners: We see a plethora of sample gowns. Purchasing a sample is a great way for the bride-to-be to acquire a dress they might not have even looked at before and an effective way for the bridal boutiques to refresh inventory.
ABG: What can brides expect when going to a sample sale?
Oakwood Cleaners: Expect some stains around the arms and the hem where the gowns have made contact with shop floors - the more popular a gown, the dirtier it will be. Watch for tears, snags, and other imperfections that might not be apparent at first glance. Be sure to check all the layers thoroughly to make sure you recognize any existing problems; most will be insignificant, but some might make a difference in cleaning or altering the gown.
ABG: Should stains or tears be cause for concern?
Oakwood Cleaners: Most of it is surface dirt so cleaning it won't cause the gown to lose its luster. These gowns weren't dragged in dirt and aren't as soiled as a gown worn on an actual wedding day - most gowns can be cleaned, modified and altered to hide any signs of damage. Even if a lace gown has a tear, as long as you are aware of what you have purchased, Oakwood (and other experienced gown cleaners) will clean and fix what they can.
A bow on a sample dress that was torn.
ABG: How much can this cost?
Oakwood Cleaners: Cost can vary based on material and layers. The more complicated the gown, the more work that goes into cleaning it. We are more than happy to offer consultations with no obligation so you know how to move forward.
The same sample dress bow, after Oakwood Cleaners fixed it!
ABG: Are there limitations to what can or cannot be fixed? For example, beading or elaborate embroidery on gowns?
Oakwood Cleaners: The gown in these pictures is from a sample sale. In this case, the beadwork is all one piece, so it is easier to clean because we will remove the entire piece, clean the gown, and sew the beading back on. Individual stones set in large prongs on gowns cannot be removed and add to the difficulty of cleaning. Be aware of these details and check with the cleaner you are going to for their opinion.
ABG: How much time should the bride allow between time of purchase, cleaning and alterations?
Oakwood Cleaners: There are two options that brides have when they purchase a dress from a sample sale. First, they can have the dress cleaned and then altered as needed. The other option is to have the modifications and alterations done first, with the cleaning done after the final fitting. To be safe, you should allow 8-12 weeks including tailoring.
ABG: What should brides keep in mind when deciding to purchase a sample gown?
Oakwood Cleaners:
1) First and foremost, you need to know whether the gown can be cleaned. Yes, it almost always can be.
2) You don’t want to buy something that’s more than one size bigger. Altering a gown larger than that can cost more than the gown and also might compromise the way the gown hangs.
3) Ask whether price of the gown includes cleaning or will you have to clean yourself.
4) Ask whether the cleaner specializes in bridal gowns. Know that not every cleaner knows how to clean wedding gowns; there are very few dry cleaners who will take the risk of cleaning something with elaborate work. Oakwood Cleaners uses an environmentally friendly cleaning process that is gentle on delicate fabrics, has no odors and will help insure that your gown looks as good as new.
5) Ask your gown specialist the cost for alterations.
6) Ask yourself if you are willing to trade having a new gown for a good price on a sample gown.
Take Rhonda’s advice and be aware when purchasing a sample gown. Have fun shopping and good luck finding your perfect dress!
All images courtesy of Oakwood Cleaners.
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Tuesday, March 20, 2012
I speak with so many brides that want to take on several do-it-yourself (DIY) wedding projects. Who can blame them when everywhere you turn there are wedding blogs with incredible DIY ideas from handmade weddings. When I got married, I too had visions of grandeur but neither the time nor the skill to pull it all together. I ended up, the night before my wedding, completing as many tasks as I could - which was no fun.
Luckily, times have changed since I got married and now there are many wedding planners that are willing to help DIY brides. My advice to any of you considering DIY projects, assess 1) how much time you realistically have to execute and 2) how much skill you have, then 3) strongly consider hiring a wedding planner to give you some help so that you are not overwhelmed.
Hillary Capes-Smith of Your Day of Fairy Tales was the project manager for a bride's DIY wedding on New Year's Eve. The bride, Melissa, hired Hillary to help her the entire month of her wedding (aka month-of wedding planning service). Included in this service, Hillary offers unlimited questions, which was great for Melissa who leveraged Hillary for help with her DIY projects! Smart girl! Hillary created a game plan and located the resources for Melissa's DIY projects; Melissa and her fiance and friends only had to execute the projects.
I spoke with Hillary to learn more about how she helped this DIY bride...
Which DIY projects did the bride ask you to do?
Melissa was a very sweet girl and had many great ideas, but needed help figuring out how to execute those ideas. She admitted that she was very crafty, but just needed initial help getting the ball rolling. The main projects that I helped the couple design were their programs, centerpieces, and the inspiration for bridesmaids bouquets.
Which did she undertake on her own? What was your role in the diy projects?
Melissa undertook all projects on her own. My role was to locate and provide the resources to Melissa and Jesse to create and execute the ideas they had.
Did you shop for the items, create a template?
When Melissa and I first met, we sat down and talked about what kind of things she was looking for as far as DIY ideas and how to make them happen. When it came time to work on each item, I searched for the necessary resources (printing, craft, etc) and sent Melissa a huge email! I provided Melissa the resources to pull these projects together. I did not actually help her create the projects, but rather the inspiration and resources to create.
How did you charge for these services?
In Melissa’s case, there was no additional fee. She hired me for month of services and it was included in her package since all of my packages include unlimited phone and e-mail communication. If the bride however chooses for me to undertake and create these projects myself, they are billed according to what the project is and how much is required of them.
Is there are flat fee for each DIY project or hourly rate?
My flat fee for each project depends on what the project is - example, program assembly cost less than assembling 200 ribbon wands.
If you are a DIY bride, feel free to contact Hillary of Your Day of Fairy Tales, or another Nashville wedding planner, for help with your DIY projects.
All photos courtesy of Josh Reeder and the inspiration board courtesy of Hillary Capes-Smith, via online compilations.
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Thursday, March 15, 2012
This week is truly a dream week for all of you bargain-seeking brides. Today kicks off the Bridal Bargainista event, a great way to shop for pre-owned wedding decor (from aisle runners to centerpieces). We'll be there so be sure to plan to attend Thursday, Friday, or Saturday. Find more details here. But, if you are looking for a steal on a wedding dress, join us bright and early on Saturday morning for the annual Goodwill Gala.
If you are not familiar with the Goodwill Gala, here's a quick rundown:
The Goodwill Wedding Gala is the ultimate way to save on your wedding dress. The Gala will take place from 6am to 9am on March 17 at the Goodwill Store in Rivergate located at 2101 Gallatin Pike North in Madison, Tennessee.
The dresses:
You will find bridal gowns, bridesmaid dresses, cocktail dresses, mother of the bride/groom dresses, flower girl dresses, and more from Alfred Angelo, Allure, Eden Bridals, Mary’s, Watters Brides, etc. No wedding gown will be priced over $400!!
The organization:
Proceeds from the sale of these items will benefit the mission of Goodwill, which is to provide employment and training opportunities for people with disabilities and others who have trouble finding and keeping jobs.
The inside scoop:
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Be sure to arrive early - last year there were 350+ brides in line at 6am to get their dream gown for less!
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Attendees will be treated to refreshments provided by C&K Catering and The Cupcake Collection.
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Rhonda Patton Weddings will provide inspirational wedding designs.
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Pre-owned wedding gowns have been cleaned by Nicholson Cleaners.
To read all about the organization, the event, and our tour of the Goodwill facilities, read our full feature via this link. For more information, visit giveit2goodwill.org or call 615-346-1665.
Before you go, browse the
Goodwill Wedding Gala Look Book for a sampling of the looks that will be for sale this Saturday (all for under $400) at the Gala.
How gorgeous is this wedding gown! I can't believe it will be available for under $400 at the Gala.
The Gala will will offer dresses for brides and bridesmaids too!
Look Book Credits - Vintage Car: 1959 Bentley from Matchless Transportation, Men’s Attire: Street Tuxedo, Location: Schermerhorn Symphony Center
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Thursday, March 8, 2012
UPDATED 3/14 - Please note that the consignment sale starts March 15 following the Opening Night Benefit, which includes a cocktail time with a silent auction from 5-6pm. The sale will open at 6pm. You will be able to purchase items that night.
Calling all brides-to-be, wedding vendors and newlyweds!! You don’t want to miss Bridal Bargainistas' first event in Nashville! Make money off your wedding memorabilia that’s collecting dust or find sensational deals if you’re a bride to be.
I spoke with Angela who helps run the Bridal Bargainista event, and she let me in on the details. Be sure to get involved - it’s a wonderful opportunity to buy or sell all things wedding!
What are the event details
The Bridal Bargainistas event will take place at the Nashville Expo Center (aka TN Fairgrounds), located at 625 Smith Avenue. The event will kick off with an opening ceremony from 5 - 8 pm on March 15. The sale will run from 6-8pm on opening night. It will continue the following day, March 16, and will run from 9 am to 8 pm. It will continue from 9 am - 3 pm on March 17. If you are a newlywed, you can sell your items by registering them online now. If you are looking to buy, you can save the date and come ready to buy!
If you have items to sell, how does it work?
If you are looking to sell, you would become a consignor. You set the price via our website and if the item sells, great! If not, you come pick it up after the sale or we donate it automatically to Goodwill on your behalf. to learn more about consigning (selling) your items, visit our website, create an account, enter items, and then have your tags printed. You tag your items and then drop them off at the fairgrounds from 11 am - 7 pm during March 13-14.
Decorative items are an absolute hit at this event! Most of the time they go faster than dresses, so if you have any centerpieces, candles, linens, etc. don’t hesitate to donate those items! (Ashley of ABG adds - if you have dresses, donate them to Goodwill this week for their upcoming Goodwill Gala and receive a tax write-off.)
If you are looking to buy, what should we know about the sale?
Everything starts March 15. We’re having a cocktail party and silent auction from 5 - 8 pm on March 15, to benefit local nonprofit Thistle Farms. The sale will follow. The price to attend is $10 for the opening night, and the other days are free. Tickets can be purchased by emailing sale{at}bridalbargainistas{dot}com. Tickets may also be purchased at the door, but we encourage you to buy them online in order to avoid an additional line. Parking is $5.
All photos courtesy of the Bridal Bargainistas' Facebook Page
We love Thistle Farms too (their items make great bridesmaids gifts!) and we are all too happy to see them benefit from this great wedding event. We are so excited for the sale and we hope to see you there!
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Monday, March 5, 2012
The precious title for her business, Simply Yours Weddings, doesn’t even begin to cover the sweet spirit of Emily Humphries, a local Nashville wedding planner who discovered her heart for brides when she realized that oftentimes, their exhaustion hinders them from enjoying their wedding planning. This truth was especially captured when Emily began to sew her own wedding together. She set out to fill a need, granting brides with what she describes as the “gift of time to live your life and enjoy your engagement, and the gift of freedom for you and your family to enjoy your Big Day!”
Merely five minutes of speaking with Emily conveys her deeply-rooted love for what she does, promising beauty for any bride’s wedding day. I spoke with Emily specifically in regards to the ever so popular Do-It-Yourself aka “DIY Bride.” In light of blogs, Etsy, and Pinterest, DIY options are exploding! But does that mean that DIY brides don’t need a wedding planner? Emily offers some wise responses pertaining to this subject, which ultimately reminds the DIY bride just how valuable a planner can be.
Image courtesy of Zach Goodyear Photography
ABG: Do you have experience working with DIY brides?
Simply Yours: Yes, I do! The description of a total DIY bride is a bride who does everything herself, and while not all brides sell out to this description, most brides want to do something themselves, granting every bride a little dash of DIY. Sara Towne, who also writes for ABG, is a good example of a bride in the middle. Sara carefully selected a handful of projects to create, while still avoiding the stress of conquering every detail that goes into a wedding. The question isn’t, ‘Are you capable of doing this [DIY wedding]?’ You’re capable. You’re creative. You’re artistic. The question is, ‘Are you going to want to spend the week of your wedding doing this? Do you have time for everything?'
Image courtesy of Betsy Limbaugh Photography.
ABG: Why do you think brides are attracted to DIY weddings? Is it to save money? To add a personal touch, perhaps?
Simply Yours: The attraction is likely a combination of both. The DIY trend has been growing for several years but the main stream availability of DIY materials has really come about during these hard economic times. Therefore there is often an illusion that DIY is always the less expensive option which may or may not be true. When I was married 4 1/2 years ago, there was not a lot available for DIY projects or even ideas for projects. There was really one major wedding planning website and a lot of magazines. But now with a combination of social media, Etsy, and Pinterest the trend itself and the influx of ideas has multiplied tremendously. Brides now start conversations with "Well I saw this idea on Pinterest..." and that dictates the amount of projects or ideas they have going for their wedding. That's not necessarily a bad thing, but it sure can multiply your to-do lists in a hurry!
Left image courtesy of Scoobie Schneider Photography; Right image courtesy of Daniel Meigs Photography.
ABG: In your experience, do DIY brides lean toward not hiring a wedding planner? Do they usually assume they can take care of everything?
Simply Yours: Viewing the wedding planner as unnecessary is a thought for a lot of Brides. I understand it, I started out as one of those Brides myself. A lot of the time, she sends me an email explaining her desired projects, while admitting she has finally come to a point where she does not have time to do all of them herself. OR she needs further direction on how to make the things she really wants come into fruition. Essentially, all brides think that they can do more, but emotional stability—family—time—all of these things weigh heavily on weddings. Feeling the weight of it all isn’t indicative of a bride’s talent or creative ability. It just reveals that our emotional capacity eventually reaches its end. We don’t realize how draining it will be until we’re in the middle of it.
Image courtesy of Betsy Limbaugh Photography.
ABG: What types of projects make the most sense for the DIY bride?
Simply Yours: Fun, personal quirks that polish off a wedding, such as guestbook elements, guest favors, pictures, signs, welcome baskets—things that don't require a lot of time, but weave the couples’ personality into the mix. I like to encourage brides to choose DIY projects that will not make or break their weddings.
Image courtesy of Scoobie Schneider Photography.
Images courtesy of Simply Yours Weddings.
ABG: How can a planner best help a DIY bride?
Simply Yours: Orchestrating an endless craft list along with managing a normal life and preparing a solid foundation for a marriage is simply too much. Eventually something has to give. The wedding planner is the give. She’s the support, let her finish it. She has the time and the resources to bring DIY ideas into fruition. She’s the one who understands what tends to fall through the cracks in weddings, and catches them before they do! She’s a master for details, who reminds the bride to be a bride, the mom to be a mom, and the best friend to be a best friend, all the while stepping up herself to complete a bride’s DIY fancies. You can trust her.
Image courtesy of Ulmer Studios Photography.
When projects seem endless, we oftentimes come to resent our creativity! Emily prizes your creativity, and on behalf of wedding planners, wants to implement your imaginative treasures into your special day! To learn more about how Emily can help you plan the day you've always dreamed of, visit her website today!
To get more sage advice from Emily and our host of experts, register today to attend our wedding planning boot camp, The Smart Bride, which starts March 13.
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