Trey & Jennifer Include Son in Ceremony; Unite as Not Two, But Three at Noah Liff Opera Center
Friday, September 12, 2014
For Jennifer & Trey, their wedding at Noah Liff Opera Center was not just about coming together as a couple, but coming together as a new family of three. Not only did they include their son in their vow ceremony but they also wanted him to be involved in the reception as well, in a very sentimental and memorable way. Instead of a traditional groom’s cake, they asked him to choose a special cake design that was uniquely his – a bright blue warthog! Definitely a special, unforgettable touch!
The couple also chose lush, deep blue velvet linens to adorn the tables throughout the reception space, gorgeous flower-filled candelabra centerpieces, and unique wall-projected lighting elements that complemented their eclectic, yet classy style.
Be sure to read on for details from Jennifer about this beautiful and sentimental celebration.
Jennifer & Trey
Wedding Date: May 24, 2013
Ceremony & Reception Venue: Noah Liff
Guests (#): 125
Budget: $10,000 - $20,000
Wedding Team
Venue | Noah Liff Opera Center
Photographer | Matt Andrews Photography
Gown | The Bride Room, Monique Lhuillier
Bride’s Accessories| Veil from etsy.com
Men’s Attire | Nordstrom’s, Hugo Boss
Hair | Abby Tedder, Kiva
Makeup | Amy Lynn Larwig
Stationery | Etsy.com
Caterer | Chef Penelope's Catering
Cake Artist | The Sweetest Day
Floral Designer | English Garden
Ceremony Musicians | Shane Baker (family friend)
Reception Musicians | Nashville Party Patrol
Rentals | Music City Tents & Events
Lighting | Nashville Audio Visual
Transportation | Grand Avenue
Guest Accommodations | Loews Vanderbilt
Bartenders | Hamilton Bartending
My Wedding Details
How would you describe your style as a couple?
Classy with an eclectic edge. We don’t always follow the “norm”, but we appreciate and honor traditions that have meaning to us.
How did you incorporate that style into your wedding?
We broke tradition in a couple areas, like by not having a bridal party or having my dad walk me down the aisle. However, we did include our families and friends in other ways like asking them to make the toasts and father/daughter and mother/son dances.
We also took a lot of time to think through the actual ceremony and the words and music chosen. We wrote our own vows, which provided an opportunity to really speak to each other during the ceremony.
We really wanted to incorporate our six-year old son, Miles, in a meaningful way. He was called up as part of the ceremony and Trey said “vows” to him as a new parent. Also, instead of a groom’s cake, we had a “Miles cake” and we gave him the freedom to pick out whatever he liked. He definitely took that liberty and selected a bright blue warthog. He ate the entire head by himself.
Noah Liff Opera Center offered us a venue “outside the norm” that was perfect as-is, but allowed us a canvas we could customize. We used a lot of lighting – some natural plus some up lighting and decorative GOBOs, which gave the space an intimate feel.
What was your (or your guests’) favorite aspect of your wedding?
Our wedding was like a family reunion for a lot of our guests. I think everyone really enjoyed being together to celebrate our marriage. We also got a lot of compliments on the food and Miles’ cake.
Where did you splurge? Where did you save/DIY?
We splurged on photography and our honeymoon to Costa Rica. We saved money in other areas by researching like crazy for the best deals while maintaining quality. We also included family and friends where possible, like our ceremony music, but we didn’t have a bridal party. Also, I purchased my dress off the rack, which saved about 50%.
Now that the wedding day is over, is there anything about your planning process you feel you could have done differently?
I wish we had hired a videographer. At the time, it seemed like a splurge but I’m sad we don’t have a video to commemorate our day. There were so many special moments I wish we could relive outside of them just being in our memories.
In one sentence, what words of advice do you have for couples in the midst of their planning?
Remember the meaning of the day. It’s easy to get wrapped up in the details and planning, but take a breath and don’t forget to enjoy each other along the way. Also, spend the money to get an amazing photographer. You won’t regret it.
About the Author:
Newlywed Heather
Heather is a Pittsburgh, PA native who now proudly calls Nashville home. As a newlywed herself, Heather is excited to talk about the latest wedding trends and share everything she learned in planning her very own Nashville wedding (psst: don't stress...At the end of the day, you'll be married to your best friend!) with Ashley's Bride Guide's readers.
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Posted on September 12, 2014 |
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